I had a dream last night where I don't remember much other than this one bit. A companion and I were traveling and ended up at a winter carnival of sorts and he wanted to go on one of the rides. It looked like a bobsled-track/rollercoaster of sorts. There was a girl ahead of us who was struggling to get into the ride; her feet kept slipping on the ice and she fell to the ground. Finally, someone helped her in but her hand stuck inside a crack in the ice. As the ride took off, she started screaming, being strapped into the ride but her hand still stuck. Slowly, the ride chugged along and ripped her arm from her body. A bloody river and her screams followed the track as the ride took her further away. No one did anything, no one cared. I, however, said a big, fat NOPE at getting on that ride.
Saturday, November 26, 2022
Tuesday, October 25, 2022
The Faint Line Between Dreaming and Waking
Last night, I struggled to fall back asleep after another instance of awake-but-dreaming. I cannot recall the actual dream, but when I woke and looked over at my boyfriend, there was a massive, twig-like spider on his head and I panicked. This beastie was about the size of my hand (which is a scary size for a spider) and it looked posed to attack, with both its two front legs up. I jumped out of bed (no small feat, as our bed is very tall and we have been lazy lately in picking up our clothes from the floor) and grabbed my phone to use the light and find the sucker. My brain was not on "what do I do when I find it" but more on "I need to find it before it bites him." I used the phone's glow rather than the flashlight because I did not want to wake him; he is still recovering from COVID. After five minutes of searching, I came up empty and reluctantly crawled back into bed. Then it dawned on me that I could not have seen that spider creature because we keep our room very dark; I can barely see the bed without a light. The vision I saw showed the creature gently lit by a bluish light, not existent in the room; the spider was a lingering aftermath of my dream.
However, that did not stop my brain from trying to tell me it was real and thereby, I could not fall back asleep for fear of feeling it crawl on my face or over my hands.
This is not the first time I have experienced these waking dreams, and it will not be the last. I can partially blame my dream on watching this YouTube video the other day: Rachel Maksy - I Tried Following a Christine McConnell Tutorial (spider cookies!). If you are not familiar with Rachel, she is a rockstar entertainer. Go subscribe.
Thursday, March 17, 2022
Have A Little Middle
Am I so high maintenance that you feel it is better to shut me out when I am screaming for help? Or did your store of caring run dry, because you are killing me. Boy, I ask for simple things that were supposed to be easily given. The truth, your trust, your honesty, your love. Unconditional if you could give it. But I would take any love you could offer; any sweet words whispered in my ear to let me know that you are still here and not a figment of my imagination. The darkness, it rolls in on me sometimes, and it pulls me further under its murky depths the longer I struggle to keep my head above water. Screaming and gurgling in the rushing water, I reach my hand out hoping to grasp yours and find nothing but air. I can feel the arms of despair clutching at my legs, desperately trying to pull me into its final embrace. Where are you when I need you the most? The hand you so readily offered before has evanesced into a white mist quietly retracting into the everlasting night.
What is it about me that drew your eyes that first day we met? What made you stay? Made you say all those lovely things? Spend all those lovely nights, just the two of us, whispering promises as we lay in each other's arms? Why do you pull this all away now?
The only thought circling my mind is that it is all my fault. I dragged you in and pulled you too close when you wanted distance. Pace yourself, you said. I will come when I can but pace yourself, girl. But being the fool I am, your words went unhindered and I dove headfirst into what could have been eternity with the love of my life but has turned into Hell full of tears and broken promises.
Now you have left me behind as you venture out to find a more normal girl. One to keep you company and prevent you from wearing the smothering cloak of loneliness. We will still be friends, you promise. But I cannot be with you like this. I cannot be want you want, what you need. I am just not a strong enough man for you and you deserve so much better than what I can offer. Please understand...
My toes inch closer to the edge as a sharp wind blows passed, whipping my skirt into a fervent frenzy. I wonder if six stories would be high enough. But it is poetic for me to do it here, on the roof of the coffee shop where I first saw you and felt that spark. I can only pray my body lands correctly, my head makes contact with the cement below. I need this to end. If it fails, you won't even be there at my hospital bed, crying into my comatose form as you question why it had to be this way. What you could have done to change things and prove to me you were real. That our love was real. Because in the end, it was all a fantasy of my ever-lonely mind. The product of an over-active imagination too used to picturing and planning other people's supposed lives.
Thursday, March 10, 2022
Is It An End Or A Beginning?
It is a scary thing to see your life come to an end before it has even really begun. Everything you have ever strived to accomplish and even those that have not yet crossed your mind surface in the most painful way imaginable; taunting you because that small part of your mind telling you that you can accomplish anything suddenly turns into a very prominent noise telling you how much you have failed. Then your brain returns back to why your life is ending anyways; was it something you did or did fate just deal you a cruel hand? Was it honestly your choice to jump from the roof of your apartment building or was it always destined to be your fate?
As the ground rushed up to meet me, I could not help but wonder which answer was right and how could I have let things get as far as they did. I have always been in control of my own life every step of the way but somewhere along the line that control skipped tracks and here I am, about to introduce my skull to the pavement rushing closer. It is funny how so many thoughts can go through my head in such a short time considering how quickly I was free-falling. It feels like time slowed down for me so that I could have enough time to seriously contemplate my situation. How did I get here?
The coffee shop on the corner of Castle and Broadway was my favorite place to linger. I had my favorite chair in an alcove; a mini chaise lounge of the most obnoxious gold and orange, next to the window looking out to the busy fountain courtyard of the square. It was here I found the most inspiration for my writing as I imagined the lives of the people outside; who they were rushing to meet or who from they were trying to escape, what greeting they used to meet their lover when they walked in the front door, how many children they had and how many they actually wanted. It was a location rich with local color and culture. The baristas all knew me by sight as well as a few of the other regulars who knew better than to be sitting in my chair at 6 p.m. on the weekends. Jimmy had just brought my medium, decaf, dark roast coffee when he walked in. A man I had never seen before walking with purpose and confidence towards the counter. There was nothing readily special about him compared to the others I have seen walk in but something still held my attention. I could not tear my eyes away from the structure of his face - ears too small for the size of his head, nose too big, and a jawline any sculpture would fantasize about.
Thursday, March 3, 2022
Now That You're Gone, All That Remains is the Ghost of Love
I swear, the most interesting conversations I have are with my boss' wife during lunch. Last week was all on religion, it being Ash Wednesday and she a Catholic. Today was all about my dark side.
I told her how back in high school, I was dark, wore only black, never smiled, and talked about ripping a guy's heart out and nailing it to his wall. People were scared of me. My coworkers now don't believe it looking at me - sweet little me with my nerdy glasses and dress clothes. But I had a serious dark issue back then. She asked what I'm scared of and I listed off items, mainly of the supernatural quality and she asked "Do you have any non dark ones?" Only a few came to mind - moving, finding a man I can trust, having children. But the bulk is made up of ghosts, zombies, vampires, mutilations, etc. She theorized that this darkness came about after my brother's untimely, gruesome death and upon contemplation...I think she's right. Tony died in May (Mother's Day) when I was 13 - the last week or so of 7th grade. 8th grade was when I changed to the dark side and my half-goth appearance, my delvation into Wicca, my renouncement of god. She asked why I'm not like that anymore and I told her the dreams are still bad, my thoughts turn to supernatural murders, and I tend to think pessimistically. This was really all brought about by my telling her how much I like ravens...how they are revered by one group and considered a death omen by another.
This thinking re-ignited my love of "The Raven" and how I'm really terrible at analysis. What goes on in the poem? Mooching from a Yahoo site, someone posted some commentary on the symbolism in the poem that I find fascinating:
"In this poem, one of the most famous American poems ever, Poe uses several symbols to take the poem to a higher level. The most obvious symbol is, of course, the raven itself. When Poe had decided to use a refrain that repeated the word "nevermore," he found that it would be most effective if he used a non-reasoning creature to utter the word. It would make little sense to use a human, since the human could reason to answer the questions (Poe, 1850). In "The Raven" it is important that the answers to the questions are already known, to illustrate the self-torture to which the narrator exposes himself. This way of interpreting signs that do not bear a real meaning, is "one of the most profound impulses of human nature" (Quinn, 1998:441).
Poe also considered a parrot as the bird instead of the raven; however, because of the melancholy tone, and the symbolism of ravens as birds of ill-omen, he found the raven more suitable for the mood in the poem (Poe, 1850). Quoth the Parrot, "Nevermore?"
Another obvious symbol is the bust of Pallas. Why did the raven decide to perch on the goddess of wisdom? One reason could be, because it would lead the narrator to believe that the raven spoke from wisdom, and was not just repeating its only "stock and store," and to signify the scholarship of the narrator. Another reason for using "Pallas" in the poem was, according to Poe himself, simply because of the "sonorousness of the word, Pallas, itself" (Poe, 1850).
A less obvious symbol, might be the use of "midnight" in the first verse, and "December" in the second verse. Both midnight and December, symbolize an end of something, and also the anticipation of something new, a change, to happen. The midnight in December, might very well be New Year's eve, a date most of us connect with change. This also seems to be what Viktor Rydberg believes when he is translating "The Raven" to Swedish, since he uses the phrase "ets sista natt var inne, " ("The last night of the year had arrived"). Kenneth Silverman connected the use of December with the death of Edgar's mother (Silverman, 1992:241), who died in that month; whether this is true or not is, however, not significant to its meaning in the poem.
The chamber in which the narrator is positioned, is used to signify the loneliness of the man, and the sorrow he feels for the loss of Lenore. The room is richly furnished, and reminds the narrator of his lost love, which helps to create an effect of beauty in the poem. The tempest outside, is used to even more signify the isolation of this man, to show a sharp contrast between the calmness in the chamber and the tempestuous night.
The phrase "from out my heart," Poe claims, is used, in combination with the answer "Nevermore," to let the narrator realize that he should not try to seek a moral in what has been previously narrated (Poe, 1850). "
Interestingly enough, the raven also appears in folklore of the Ilse of Man, where my ancestors came from.
The following is a tidbit from "http://www.whats-your-sign.com/raven-symbolism.html"
"the raven's intelligence is possibly its most winning feature. Indeed, these birds can be trained to speak. This speaking ability leads into the legend of ravens being the ultimate oracle.
In fact, the raven is often heard to cackle utterances that sound like "cras, cras." The actual word cras is tomorrow in Latin. This lends more fuel to the legendary fires that distinguish the raven as a bird who can foretell the future, and reveal omens and signs.
Countless cultures point to the raven as a harbinger of powerful secrets. Moreover, the raven is a messenger too, so its business is in both keeping and communicating deep mysteries.
Raven symbolism of wisdom and knowledge-keeping is connected with the Welsh hero Bran, the Blessed whose name means raven. Bran was the holder of ancestral memories, and his wisdom was legendary. So much so, that he had his head (the vessel of his powerful wisdom) removed and interred in the sacred White Mount in London. Ravens are still roosting there (in the Tower of London), and they're thought to keep Bran's wisdom protected and alive by their presence.
Other Native North American tribes saw the raven as the bringer of light. In fact, southwestern tribes (Hopi, Navajo, Zuni) felt the raven was flew out from the dark womb of the cosmos, and with it brought the light of the sun (dawning of understanding). Consequently, the raven is considered a venerated bird of creation, for without the raven, humans would forever live in darkness.
Dr. Carl Jung deemed raven symbolism to represent the shadow self, or the dark side of the psyche. I very much like this. Why? Because by acknowledging this dark side, we can effectively communicate with both halves of ourselves. This offers liberating balance, and facilitates tremendous wisdom (something the raven would be very pleased with).
In other words, through the consistent unveiling of inner depths, and the positive/active utilization of inner impulses the esoteric secrets become exposed to the light of our own consciousness. This is at the crux of what the raven speaks to me. "
Food for thought.
Thursday, February 24, 2022
Reconciliation and Recreation
I think that in light of recent events, it's time things changed with me. I've begun a process of reconciling with past issues and redesigning myself both in state of mind and general presence. Since work was slow, I spent the day re-reading my old LiveJournal postings and quite frankly, they were disgusting. In all truthfulness, I sounded like her and I was utterly appalled, though I have noticed some changes from 2005 till now in my general maturity but it's not enough. Things I've learned this year:
1) The past needs to stay in the past. No more bringing up sore feelings and trying to reach out to people I used to talk to. If we've stopped talking, it was for a reason and I should no longer try to contact them. If they wish to reconnect with me, they can initiate it.
2) No more being so open about every single little thing in my life. It's time I actually had a private life. People don't need to know every single detail and every single thought. In fact, they'd probably appreciate that.
3) No more allowing people to friend me on Facebook if I do not talk to them. Yes, I might have gone to high school or college with you but that does not mean we are friends and I want to let you in my life. I need to not be afraid of the "decline" button.
That's pretty much it for now. I had sent some thank yous/apologies to old friends for my behavior and two of them pretty much bit me in the ass - it's likely the third will as well. As sad as it is to see people who used to be so dear to me move so far away in my life, it's best that way. For everyone.
Reconciliation and Recreation are my mottoes for 2012. I mean, hey, we do only have 10 months and 19 days until the world goes to shit anyways. Might as well live it up as best I can.
Thursday, February 17, 2022
Just Another Perfect Day and Before You Know, It's Gone
Story starter centered around a title I thought of while driving home one night. I have no idea where the story is going.
“Where are you going now? It's almost dinner time...”
“Out, woman. I told you I have a presentation to work on due next week.” Giovanni rolled his eyes as he grabbed his coat and slammed the door on her remark. He didn't really care anymore about her snide comments or nagging attitude; only about the sexy brunette eagerly awaiting his arrival at the University library. Isabelle's feelings toward him had waned, he told himself. She probably knew about Veronica but still tried hard to keep their relationship intact. But it was a dying relationship, if not already dead. Any love he had felt for her diminished steadily the more he met with his presentation partner – sassy sea-green eyes, silky brown hair begging to be brushed aside, and the best pair of legs he had ever seen on a female. She didn't nag him to be home at a certain time; nag him to spend every waking minute with her.
The brisk, September air cooled his hot temper a degree or so as he walked the half-mile to the library. It was easier and quicker to drive, but he loved to tease Vonny by showing up late. The longer he takes, the more her desire builds, and the more delicious their meeting after working would be.
He could see her bouncing on her heels, watching the distance for his arrival. He smiled when she perked up and ran towards him, the corner of her mouth turned down in frustration.
“You jerk! I've been here for 15 minutes waiting for that lazy ass of yours. Why do you always do this??”
He smirked and said, “Because you look too damn sexy when you are mad at me.” Vonny whacked the side of his head then grabbed his arm and dragged him into the library. The solitary table in the back of the study room was empty of people as usual but heaped up with books for their research. Flirting with the library attendant proved to be useful, despite her frumpiness and forward advances, but that was nothing Giovanni could not handle.
“Speak of the devil,” he murmured as she came scurrying up to their table, jealously eyeing Vonny leaning towards him.
“Gio? Nice to see you again tonight,” she giggled and twirled a strand of stringy hair around her finger. “I found a great book for you in the archives. I think it will really help with your research!”
Vonny snorted and waved her hand in the girl's direction. “Thanks, Beth. Just leave it on the table and we'll get to it. We have a lot to do tonight and no time for chatting.” She turned back to Gio and resumed her soft-spoken conversation. Gio smiled at Beth, taking the book from her and tucking it with the rest.
“Thanks, Beth,” he said winking then turned back to Vonny and her notes. Beth bounced away happily and Gio sighed.
“I really don't know why you do that,” Vonny said, making a wry face. “She is such a scrub, why do you waste your time?”
“The perks, Vonny, the perks.” He laughed at her reaction and clarified, “Not like that. It just means we don't have to scour the entire library for books. We can just have her do it instead, which means I get more time with you.”
“So how's that woman of yours, anyway? Did she give you any trouble when you left?”
“You know she did. I honestly can't stand it anymore...Maybe I'll end it if I ever go home and run away with you, Vonny.” He smirked at her when she blushed but smacked him again and said,
“Don't tease me, Gio. You'll never leave her. Didn't that fortuneteller say you'll be together for eternity or some trash like that?”
Gio shook his head as he thought about the fortuneteller from years ago. “She was just some old bag trying to make a quick buck. It was complete bullshit. Besides, you are the woman of my dreams, baby.” He grabbed her chin and kissed her hard then pushed her away and grabbed the new book Beth brought. Vonny shook the stars from her eyes and leaned over his shoulder to see as well. It was a well-worn volume, with brown, tattered pages and hard-to-decipher, handwritten words. The cover was simple, bound in navy blue leather with a fine tracery of gold around the edges.
“What is this one about, anyways? I can't even read the handwriting!” Vonny scrunched her face and leaned in closer giving Gio a prime chance to smell the strawberry shampoo she always used. She knew he liked it. The little temptress.
“Looks like a diary by some woman named Elizabeth in London. Says here in the intro she was of some lower noble class who met with a tragic ending but won’t say what yet. This actually might be pertinent to our research…”
“Hmm, whatever. Looks boring to me. How about you take that one and let me know how it is while I go to the ladies room. Be back in a bit, sunshine!”
Gio watched her walk for a few minutes then turned his attention to the diary.
Thursday, February 10, 2022
The Underworkings of an Intricate Mind
That's correct - underworkings, not innerworkings. I feel my thought processes come from somewhere underneath all the mush known as brain tissue rather than inside, which really doesn't make too much sense since our thoughts do come from the brain. But, this is my world and how I choose to run it.
In actuality, I feel sorry for people who have to tolerate my excessiveness. My main infliction is asking questions that really have no answer and that make no difference in the grand scheme of things. For instance, wondering why water does not simply *fall* down a drain but has to spiral. Which is another interesting point because depending on where in the world you are, it spirals a different way. Now I know this has to do with the equator and center of gravity, blah, blah, blah...
My main concern is how in the world I can write a novel. My vocabulary usage is skewed...I think a word sounds correct where I place it but in reality, it is used wrong. And here I am, a graduated English major.
Something to work on....
A few words I want to incorporate in my novel:
-androgynous
-antithesis
-viscera (not sure how I'll work that in but it just sounds fantastic)
Anyways, that's all for now!
Thursday, February 3, 2022
New Beginnings...*how cliche!*
Many have suggested the usefulness of starting a blog and dare I say I will actually listen, especially since my desire to be read has intensified due to recent events. My prose is bleak and commonplace but holds an intrinsic charm, I suppose. Or maybe not.
This is all I plan on saying today. Have a nice day!
